Epilepsy Has gotten the better of me

So last night I had an emotional breakdown. I have not come here and written in awhile but I truly do need it today. Last night Tyler had a seizure, all I could think of while he was convulsing was why him? Lord take this from him and put it on me. Have me be the one seizing right now just please don't make him suffer anymore. I just don't want to see that for my baby anymore. Anyone who has met Tyler knows how sweet and lovable he is so why him? Why does he have to suffer through this disease so early in his life? Another thing that bothers me is WHY?????? does he have this? He was also diagnosed with Chiari Malformation. When reading up on that it is sometimes linked to poor nutrition by the mother during pregnancy. Thats what I don't get. When I was pregnant with Tyler I did everything by the book. I took my prenatals everyday, I drank plenty of water, I made sure I ate right and very healthy, I got enough rest. So why??? If it was Jordan and I may be singing a different tune b/c with him I was very lax with my pregnancy I ate what I wanted, I didn't always take my prenatals, I was in early labor for WEEKS!!!, and was drugged up on pain medications and had so much medications pumping through me to stop his labor. So why Tyler???? I do often wonder if it was b/c he was born at 35 weeks. Were the doctors wrong? Were Mark and I wrong to trust them? Should we have continued to try and stop the labor? I just want to know why and that is probably an answer I will never get. I want to have the power to take this from him and just put it all on me but I cant. I just really needed to get that out there. Please say a prayer for Tyler to grow out of this quickly, and to not ever have to deal with any symptoms of Chiari Malformation. Thank You!!!